On this page, you will find all the resources for CHANGEpain’s Mindful Communication group medical visit program.
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Influential Books
The following three books have influenced the content taught in the course. If you like what you are learning about and want to learn more, these books are a great place to start.
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life, by Marshall Rosenberg
What We Say Matters: Practicing Nonviolent Communication, by Judith Hanson Lasater & Ike Lasater
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most, by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton & Sheila Heen
Resources
Sensations – Emotions – Needs
Body Sensations List
Feelings & Sensations List
Needs & Feelings List
Needs List
What is the difference between feelings and emotions? (2 minute online video)
Nonverbal Communication
The Importance of Nonverbal Cues as told by “Friends” (5 minute online video – humorous)
Listening
The Art of Listening, Simon Sinek (5 minute online video)
The Power of Listening, William Ury (16 minute online video)
Being a Good Listener (5 minute online video)
Empathy
Brené Brown on Empathy (3 minute online video)
Boundaries
Brene Brown on Boundaries (6 minute online video)
How to Set & Hold Boundaries with Melissa Urban (We Can Do Hard Things podcast)
Tools
Speaking with Healthcare Providers
How to Talk to Your Doctor about HRT (online article, advice can be generalized)
Possible Practices
I encourage you to develop a daily practice based on the work we are doing for this program. What you do and how long you do it for are up to you. Here are some suggestions:
- Mindful exploration of your feelings
- What could I have done differently?
- Translate judgments/evaluations into observations
- Identify needs underneath your feelings
- Reflect on your nonverbal communication
- Watch/read and reflect on resources on this page
- Practice listening
- Prepare for conversations
- Compassionately reflect on conversations
Additional Nonviolent Communication Resources
NVC Marshall Rosenberg – San Francisco Workshop (3 hour online video)
Nonviolent Communication – Marshall Rosenberg’s NVC Training (podcast)